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Grace from Hutt City Council
This year Christmas and New Year fall on a Tuesday and our collectors are having the day off.
To make sure your rubbish and recycling still gets collected, we are doing a Christmas run on Saturday 22 December and a New Year run on Saturday 29 December.
If you’d like to take advantage of this … View moreThis year Christmas and New Year fall on a Tuesday and our collectors are having the day off.
To make sure your rubbish and recycling still gets collected, we are doing a Christmas run on Saturday 22 December and a New Year run on Saturday 29 December.
If you’d like to take advantage of this opportunity, please make sure your rubbish and recycling is on the kerb by 7.30am.
The Team from Wasp Wipeout
Wow! Your generosity means we have already raised almost $4000 in just three days towards our fight against wasps. We've also received an amazing $35,000 sponsorship from BASF which is a fantastic boost to the campaign. Every little bit counts and by contributing, you can make wasp-free … View moreWow! Your generosity means we have already raised almost $4000 in just three days towards our fight against wasps. We've also received an amazing $35,000 sponsorship from BASF which is a fantastic boost to the campaign. Every little bit counts and by contributing, you can make wasp-free regions a real possibility. Find out more about the project and how you can contribute here: givealittle.co.nz...
Amanda from Maungaraki
Come and see BestStart Petone's Christmas Grotto and get your free photo with Santa tomorrow (Tuesday 18th) from 1.30pm to 3.30pm.
Where: Level 2 , 22 Nevis Street, Petone
We have created a magical Christmas wonderland that really brings the
spirit of Christmas alive. Bring your child … View moreCome and see BestStart Petone's Christmas Grotto and get your free photo with Santa tomorrow (Tuesday 18th) from 1.30pm to 3.30pm.
Where: Level 2 , 22 Nevis Street, Petone
We have created a magical Christmas wonderland that really brings the
spirit of Christmas alive. Bring your child along to experience the wonder.
We ask that you bring a small food donation for non-perishable food to be
donated to our local food bank.
We look forward to seeing you and spreading the Christmas cheer!
For more info see our attached flyer or visit our facebook event.
We hope to see you there
Merry Christmas
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Kiwi Halal Meats from Kiwi Halal Meats
Kiwi Halal Meats, 286 High Street, Lower Hutt. Phone:04-5869786.
Christmas Special
Fresh hand slaughtered free range size 16 chicken - 2 for $23
Lamb Neck Curry pieces (Frozen) - $7.99/kg
… View moreKiwi Halal Meats, 286 High Street, Lower Hutt. Phone:04-5869786.
Christmas Special
Fresh hand slaughtered free range size 16 chicken - 2 for $23
Lamb Neck Curry pieces (Frozen) - $7.99/kg
Fresh Beef Mince from $11.50/kg
Beef Tails - $11.50/kg
Boneless Curry beef $12.50/kg
Premium Beef with Bones $11.50/kg
Fresh Goat Meat $13.99/kg
Marhaba Sella/Basmati Rice 5kg - $16
20kg Everyday Basmati Rice - $45 bag
Laverna from Fairfield
I still have more pots of White christmas Lilies for sale.
Some have started to flower .
Make a great gift or just plant them in pots.
$10ea pot and some $5 pots.
Please message me if you are interested in buying a pot or 2.
Thanks
Price: $10
Haven Falls can arrange any type of funeral service depending on your family’s spiritual and cultural traditions. We offer 24-hour quality care and professional service Wellington-wide, with funeral packages from $3,990 + GST. No deposit required, 30 day invoice.
Find us at 42-50 Burden … View moreHaven Falls can arrange any type of funeral service depending on your family’s spiritual and cultural traditions. We offer 24-hour quality care and professional service Wellington-wide, with funeral packages from $3,990 + GST. No deposit required, 30 day invoice.
Find us at 42-50 Burden Avenue, Wainuiomata.
Phone 04 564 3792 and 0800 428365 or visit our website www.havenfalls.co.nz for more information.
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🎄 12 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS LOCAL GIVE AWAY 🎄
On the twelfth day of Christmas…
We have come together with our amazing friends @The Mobility Company (give them a like) and together we are giving away our lucky last prize a: The Green Evinci Robin 13ah e-bike Valued at $1900
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On the twelfth day of Christmas…
We have come together with our amazing friends @The Mobility Company (give them a like) and together we are giving away our lucky last prize a: The Green Evinci Robin 13ah e-bike Valued at $1900
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Ann from Relationship Wellbeing Specialist
Empathy is the willingness to feel with your partner. To understand their inner world.
This critical skill is part of Dr. Gottman’s State of the Union Meeting and is key to reaching resolution in conflict conversations. During conflict is also when empathy is most difficult. To empathize with … View moreEmpathy is the willingness to feel with your partner. To understand their inner world.
This critical skill is part of Dr. Gottman’s State of the Union Meeting and is key to reaching resolution in conflict conversations. During conflict is also when empathy is most difficult. To empathize with your partner when their hurt feelings are a result of something you said or did without defending yourself requires skill and practice.
Couples that have mastered empathy tell me “it’s like a light switch has been turned on in their relationship” and their cycles of conflict drastically change. This is because partners stop defending their positions and instead seek to understand each other. They become a team against the conflict.
Stop trying to fix your partner
Empathy is easy when our partner is happy. It’s more difficult to empathize when our partner is hurting, angry, or sad. As Marshall Rosenberg says in Nonviolent Communication, “It may be difficult to empathize with those who are closest to us.” Since we care about them, we try to help minimize their feelings because we know that they are difficult, but sympathizing can be damaging despite positive intentions.
Empathy is putting yourself in the shoes of the person you love. Sympathy is feeling compassion, sorrow, or pity without experiencing their feelings with them. Brené Brown’s description of sympathy as trying to paint a silver-lining around pain is a very common response.
“Well, it could be worse…”
“I think you should…”
“This could turn into a positive experience for you if you just…”
The problem with this kind of response is that it invalidates the other person. I know when others have tried to “fix” my feelings, I’ve ended up resenting them because it made me feel foolish for feeling that way in the first place.
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Hi neighbours,
It's that time of the year where everyone is hanging out for a holiday. So here are Brook Sabin's top 10 ideas of things to do during the school break. Watch the video below and click here to read the full story. Happy Holidays!
Ministry of Foreign Affairs and Trade
New Zealand is preparing for a future free trade agreement with the United Kingdom. We’re asking for New Zealanders’ views now, so we can take them into account right from the start of the process.
Key benefits we will be looking for include removing tariffs and other barriers that restrict… View moreNew Zealand is preparing for a future free trade agreement with the United Kingdom. We’re asking for New Zealanders’ views now, so we can take them into account right from the start of the process.
Key benefits we will be looking for include removing tariffs and other barriers that restrict the flow of goods and services between our countries, and closer cooperation on progressive trade issues, including environmental protections.
To make your voice heard, just answer our quick poll question and share your thoughts.
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Is there a letterbox in your neighbourhood that makes you smile? One the kids always make you drive past? Maybe you've spotted an eye-catching roadside oddity on your Summer car trip.
We want to see the craziest, quirkiest and most colourful letterboxes in New Zealand. Share photographs of … View moreIs there a letterbox in your neighbourhood that makes you smile? One the kids always make you drive past? Maybe you've spotted an eye-catching roadside oddity on your Summer car trip.
We want to see the craziest, quirkiest and most colourful letterboxes in New Zealand. Share photographs of unique letterboxes you come across these holidays and you’re in the draw to win one of four $500 prizes including a $250 Prezzy® card and $250 Resene voucher. Plus the owner of the winning letterbox wins the same prize!
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