Useful tips for maintaining healthy relationships!
ℹ️HOW TO HAVE HEALTHY ARGUMENTS:
Everybody can have arguments, you'll find these in healthiest of relationships and often times it becomes a monologue that blocks the communication channel where it should be a dialogue that sails the boat really🙃
then, how do you avoid the negativity that comes from a nasty argument among couples and turn it upside down to get better communication across instead?
TIPS:
1. Set a timer for each partner to put across their viewpoint!
2. Listen as well as speak
3. Calm down and cool off in between your turn( Be patient to other person's point of view, even when you do not agree with them.
RESULTS: This exercise gives an opportunity to create balance and bring out deep-seated issues/problems thereby resolving concerns leading to BETTER COMMUNICATION!
Poll: Do you think NZ should ban social media for youth?
The Australian Prime Minister has expressed plans to ban social media use for children.
This would make it illegal for under 16-year-olds to have accounts on platforms including TikTok, Instagram, Facebook and X.
Social media platforms would be tasked with ensuring children have no access (under-age children and their parents wouldn’t be penalised for breaching the age limit)
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Do you think NZ should follow suit? Vote in our poll and share your thoughts below.
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85.5% Yes
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13.4% No
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1.1% Other - I'll share below
Gardening
We are looking for someone to do lawns and garden maintenance once a fortnight for a property in Browns Bay.
What's your favourite recipe for courgettes?
Kia ora neighbours. If you've got a family recipe for courgettes, we'd love to see it and maybe publish it in our magazine. Send your recipe to mailbox@nzgardener.co.nz, and if we use it in the mag, you will receive a free copy of our January 2025 issue.