Taita, Lower Hutt

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2130 days ago

Intimate Conversations

Ann from Relationship Wellbeing Specialist

Not really. Not entirely. Fear was taken from the reality of Merriam-Webster. Intimacy was taken from the reality of human relationships. Ultimately, when we are afraid of the possible consequences, we cannot trust our partners to listen and fully support us – especially not when it comes to our … View moreNot really. Not entirely. Fear was taken from the reality of Merriam-Webster. Intimacy was taken from the reality of human relationships. Ultimately, when we are afraid of the possible consequences, we cannot trust our partners to listen and fully support us – especially not when it comes to our deepest feelings, hopes, or dreams. And why should we?

Our internal wiring prevents us from opening our hearts to those we fear will hurt us emotionally, from worries that they will let us down, to terror and anxiety about their potential to leave us. This is, in the language of evolutionary psychology, called an adaptive trait. It’s healthy. We need to protect ourselves!

Dr. Gottman understands this. His book on trust tells us to listen to these feelings, but also provides incredibly important methods for discerning how trust functions (or malfunctions) in our relationships. He doesn’t waste any time in getting to the core of the issue: trust begins in emotional attunement. Emotional attunement is often rooted in the ways in which we speak to each other – trust is built and broken in our everyday conversation.

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2130 days ago

Join the trip of a lifetime in Vietnam and help young kiwis along the way.

Graeme Dingle Foundation

Trek to Transform Young Lives.

In April of this year, Kanoa Lloyd and the Graeme Dingle Foundation will be taking on a challenge and trekking through Vietnam to raise funds for the school based programmes the Foundation runs.

They're searching for a team to join them on this trip of a … View more
Trek to Transform Young Lives.

In April of this year, Kanoa Lloyd and the Graeme Dingle Foundation will be taking on a challenge and trekking through Vietnam to raise funds for the school based programmes the Foundation runs.

They're searching for a team to join them on this trip of a lifetime that will do so much to help our tamariki. If an 11 day trip through the exquisite Vietnamese country side sounds appealing to you - why not join Trek to Transform Young Lives and help kiwi kids along the way.

To find out more visit dinglefoundation.org.nz...

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2159 days ago

War On The Pavement

Michael from Pinehaven

What will become of E Scooters?

Three things can happen in NZ:
A total ban
Allowed on pavements at a max speed of 10km.
Allowed only on cycle lanes.

Our pavements (footpaths) are becoming a war zone.… View more
What will become of E Scooters?

Three things can happen in NZ:
A total ban
Allowed on pavements at a max speed of 10km.
Allowed only on cycle lanes.

Our pavements (footpaths) are becoming a war zone.

Normal bicycles are illegal to be ridden on pavements but are.

Wheelie Bins can clog up space.

kids and others on normal scooters often use pavements at "racing" speed.

Skate boards are used on the pavement mostly at a fast clip.

Then we have the "normal" usage - pedestrians, joggers, people with prams/buggies, people walking dogs, disabled people in wheelchairs or electric chairs, people who are intoxicated. Pedestrians come in all ages and abilities - some idle, some might (have to) veer right or left. Dogs on leashes and children might take a sudden lurch right or left.

Some people want cyclists aged up to 12 and even beyond to use the pavements as of right.

People and dogs getting injured - seriously or minor on our pavements is growing at a alarming rate.

There is a war going on with footpath usage no longer just for foot traffic.

2131 days ago

Wanting to reduce your waste?

Kylie from Hutt City Libraries

Ditched plastic but wondering what you can do next to reduce your waste?

Hutt City Libraries is pleased to host The Rubbish Trip's popular presentation on zero waste living!

War Memorial Library - Thursday 7 February, 6pm-8pm

Join Hannah and Liam, the Two No-Waste Nomads behind The Rubbish … View more
Ditched plastic but wondering what you can do next to reduce your waste?

Hutt City Libraries is pleased to host The Rubbish Trip's popular presentation on zero waste living!

War Memorial Library - Thursday 7 February, 6pm-8pm

Join Hannah and Liam, the Two No-Waste Nomads behind The Rubbish Trip, for an introduction to the practicalities and philosophy of waste reduction. Drawing on their own research and over three years of experience living zero waste, Hannah and Liam will guide you through the whys and the hows of life without a rubbish bin.

They're also running a practical, hands-on workshop making DIY zero waste toiletries and cleaners on the following Saturday.

War Memorial Library - Saturday 9 February, 10am-12noon

The DIY workshop is totally free but please BYO containers if you would like to take samples home!
Hannah and Liam would also like to know if you're coming along so they can prepare appropriate quantity of workshop materials. Let them know over at www.facebook.com...

February 19 - The Rubbish Trip - Bare Essentials.pdf Download View

February 19 - The Rubbish Trip - Reducing Talk.pdf Download View

2142 days ago

Neighbour’s tree roots on my property

Jassi from Naenae

Hi all,

My Neighbour’s tree roots are on my property. How can I tackle this? Do i need to pay to get them removed? What is the best way to sort it out without being in much trouble?

Any suggestions please thank you

2137 days ago

Metlink train services in Hutt Valley and Wairarapa suspended - have you been affected?

The Team Reporter from Stuff

About 6000 commuters will struggle to get to work on Thursday after Hutt Valley train services were suspended following damage to the tracks that occurred during maintenance.

Those travelling on the Wairarapa services will also be delayed as Metlink awaits clearance for the services to run. … View more
About 6000 commuters will struggle to get to work on Thursday after Hutt Valley train services were suspended following damage to the tracks that occurred during maintenance.

Those travelling on the Wairarapa services will also be delayed as Metlink awaits clearance for the services to run. Melling services are still running.

The damage to the track and signalling machinery was caused by an excavator working on scheduled maintenance overnight. The excavator derailed near Taita, closing the track. Keep up to date here

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2132 days ago

Pink/white cropped sweatshirt, size small women.

Simone from Kelson

Purchased from Jayjays and only worn about 4 times.
Femme fatale black writing on sleeves and side.

Price: $10

2134 days ago

Under 18 looking for adventure?

AFS Intercultural Programmes and Go Kiwi Go

Hi Neighbours! AFS Global Prep programmes offer 14 to 18-year-olds, short-term, theme-based, experiences that address issues important to young people while facilitating their growth as global citizens.

Work on the environment in Costa Rica, or sustainability and culture in Germany, try … View more
Hi Neighbours! AFS Global Prep programmes offer 14 to 18-year-olds, short-term, theme-based, experiences that address issues important to young people while facilitating their growth as global citizens.

Work on the environment in Costa Rica, or sustainability and culture in Germany, try art and design in Argentina, or find out about Chinese culture and much more! This is an opportunity to pursue your interests while becoming a global citizen.

You’ll thrive in an incredible new place unlike anything you’ve experienced so far, and create authentic connections that will last a lifetime! Call 0800 600 300 to find out more!
More info!

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