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Need help with learning your computer, smartphone, I-pad or tablet? Visit Marty's Digital Hub, next Tuesday 14th December from 1pm-2.30pm, 1120 Willowpark Rd North, Mayfair, Hastings. (next door to Mayfair School) Bring $5 or give a koha per session. (includes afternoon tea)
Phone 027 232 … View moreNeed help with learning your computer, smartphone, I-pad or tablet? Visit Marty's Digital Hub, next Tuesday 14th December from 1pm-2.30pm, 1120 Willowpark Rd North, Mayfair, Hastings. (next door to Mayfair School) Bring $5 or give a koha per session. (includes afternoon tea)
Phone 027 232 4700 to enquire.
Our February issue of our Seniors Newsletter is out now. In this issue we're keeping you in the know how on copper withdrawal and how that may affect you, plus lots more.
hi neighbours we are looking to love a small dog after our beloved Jack Russell died at 16yrs last year. Looking for a dog who is ok with young children and a cat, under 6 yrs. I work at home and have a secure section.
To celebrate Valentine’s Day, subscribe to NZ House & Garden, NZ Gardener, or TV Guide online at Mags4Gifts and receive an iconic box of Guylian Belgian seashells.
Simply enter the promo code ‘VALENTINES’ at the checkout to redeem this great offer. Valid until 11:59pm 14 February … View moreTo celebrate Valentine’s Day, subscribe to NZ House & Garden, NZ Gardener, or TV Guide online at Mags4Gifts and receive an iconic box of Guylian Belgian seashells.
Simply enter the promo code ‘VALENTINES’ at the checkout to redeem this great offer. Valid until 11:59pm 14 February 2023, white stocks last. For full terms and conditions click here.
The team at Mags4Gifts.
Kiwi Can is a life skills and values programme delivered to the whole school by trained Kiwi Can leaders with every child attending a Kiwi Can lesson once a week, every week of the school year. Kiwi Can has a history of making a big difference. But the proof is in the research, and here’s what it… View moreKiwi Can is a life skills and values programme delivered to the whole school by trained Kiwi Can leaders with every child attending a Kiwi Can lesson once a week, every week of the school year. Kiwi Can has a history of making a big difference. But the proof is in the research, and here’s what it shows...
- Engages students
- Reduces truancy
- Improves listening and communication skills
- Helps children play cooperatively and resolve behavioural issues more easily
- Builds confidence
- Reduces bullying in schools
Find out more about our Kiwi Can programme through the link below.
We seek a person "on call" to drive our company ute to locations such as Auckland, Taupo, other regions, on an 'as needs' basis. The driver must have a Full Clean Licence and be available to stay for occasional overnight stay if necessary. It would be helpful if driver was a … View moreWe seek a person "on call" to drive our company ute to locations such as Auckland, Taupo, other regions, on an 'as needs' basis. The driver must have a Full Clean Licence and be available to stay for occasional overnight stay if necessary. It would be helpful if driver was a practical handyman with some hands on experience to support our staff member. All expenses are covered and pay rate to be negotiated. Ph Liddy 021 181 7797.
All too often, our older community are found at home alone, suffering, physically hurt and unable to help themselves. If you’re living alone and would like some extra support, get to know your neighbours, reassure them that you're okay with them checking in on you, and together make a plan … View moreAll too often, our older community are found at home alone, suffering, physically hurt and unable to help themselves. If you’re living alone and would like some extra support, get to know your neighbours, reassure them that you're okay with them checking in on you, and together make a plan and talk through what warning signs to look out for should something be wrong. It could just save your life.
For more information, and tips to help you make a plan go to thehelloproject.nz
Apparently we grew up in caves. My darling sons radio show.
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Needless to say, it's been a horrible week for a lot of us with the scary weather and all it's brought with it. If you're doing it tough, here's something which might help.
Stuff's podcast Stuff Explained has been talking with Hummingly's Jolie Wills, a … View moreNeedless to say, it's been a horrible week for a lot of us with the scary weather and all it's brought with it. If you're doing it tough, here's something which might help.
Stuff's podcast Stuff Explained has been talking with Hummingly's Jolie Wills, a psycho-social expert in disaster and disruption. In this short podcast interview, Jolie shares her expert advice on what you, or the people you want to support, may need right now.
Whether you're currently involved, or you want to help others, it's worth a quick listen!
From 1 April, I will be the new owner of the Women’s Fitness Studio in Hastings 🌟
A bit about me, Maria Pearson:
* Registered Exercise Professional - REPs registered
* BPhEd and MPhEd - University of Otago
My focus is women's health. I am passionate about healthy aging and … View moreFrom 1 April, I will be the new owner of the Women’s Fitness Studio in Hastings 🌟
A bit about me, Maria Pearson:
* Registered Exercise Professional - REPs registered
* BPhEd and MPhEd - University of Otago
My focus is women's health. I am passionate about healthy aging and staying well and robust as we get older. I’ve run a number of public talks on the topic.
I have previously worked at EIT where I was a researcher and lectured human anatomy and physiology to first year nursing students.
There will be no changes in the gym initially but there may be some interesting changes as I get settled in.
I will spend time in the gym (916 Heretaunga Street East, Hastings) starting Tuesday 7th February at different times.
I am excited about meeting everyone at the Women's Fitness Studio and sharing my knowledge and ideas!
Message me if you have any queries.
The Canon Summer Snap competition has garnered some stunning photos from across Aotearoa. Once again, Neighbourly is the judge of their People and Communities photograph category so we need you!
There's a camera up for grabs for these talented photographers, and it's up to you to … View moreThe Canon Summer Snap competition has garnered some stunning photos from across Aotearoa. Once again, Neighbourly is the judge of their People and Communities photograph category so we need you!
There's a camera up for grabs for these talented photographers, and it's up to you to choose who takes the crown...and the Canon EOS!
Cast your vote in the poll below before 4pm, 14 February.
Gift buying can be tricky, but why not gift good instead? 🎁
You can gift to us through The Good Registry any time of the year - for birthdays, weddings, Christmas, workplace celebrations, baby showers… any special life moments and milestones.
Head to their website and gift good for your … View moreGift buying can be tricky, but why not gift good instead? 🎁
You can gift to us through The Good Registry any time of the year - for birthdays, weddings, Christmas, workplace celebrations, baby showers… any special life moments and milestones.
Head to their website and gift good for your next occasion.
Did you know older people speak a different language to younger?
The same words, and the same order to them, but often with completely different meanings.
I have a friend, in her 80’s, who used to be a teacher, and is a firm believer in saying exactly what one means, and meaning exactly what … View moreDid you know older people speak a different language to younger?
The same words, and the same order to them, but often with completely different meanings.
I have a friend, in her 80’s, who used to be a teacher, and is a firm believer in saying exactly what one means, and meaning exactly what one says. As do most older people I know.
That’s not to say younger people don’t. The problem comes when modern language rules meets older language simplicity. And how this can lead to distress on all parts.
My friend hired a professional arborist, to take care of some problem trees, vines and bushes on her property.
My friend explained that the offending plants needed removing, because they had become so overgrown as to be out of anyone’s ability to control them and it was a constant recurring issue.
Through face to face, txt and email, with photos, they agreed that the problems would be removed. And that’s where the communication fell down.
My friend left the arborist to remove the plants, and carried on about her day. When it came time to pick up her grandchild from school, she passed the arborist, packing up. Finished. My friend glanced over to the part of the garden where one of the problems was, saw nothing there and agreed to pay the invoice.
When she came home and went to show her granddaughter the clearing she could now run around in, she discovered the arborist had only chopped the overgrowth off and left the stumps and trunks to regrow.
This was not what my friend asked for. She asked for the problem plants to be removed.
When queried the arborist said “that’s what I did”.
I have asked other younger people and they agree with her. I asked older people and they disagree with her. As do I.
Why? Simple. If I go to a doctor who tells me I have a tumour that must be removed, I really don’t want the visible part cut off and the root left to regrow. Would you?
Younger people, talk, and listen to older people. Don’t filter their words through your dictionary. And older, people you have to learn to clarify what you say. Ask for feedback, don’t just assume what you said has the same meaning for the young person you are talking to, as it would for your elderly friends.
It wouldn’t hurt you to learn a few new colloquialisms.
Perhaps we need an evolving “Then to Now” dictionary/thesaurus. After all, language is a living thing, and all living things evolve.
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