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Two years ago I bought 500 g butter for $4.
Last year I bought 500 g butter for $5 - a 20% increase in a year.
This year the cheapest butter is $6.80 - a 36% increase in a year … and it is still going up.
So why is Stuff publishing such drivel???
I leave it to … View moresee www.stuff.co.nz...
Two years ago I bought 500 g butter for $4.
Last year I bought 500 g butter for $5 - a 20% increase in a year.
This year the cheapest butter is $6.80 - a 36% increase in a year … and it is still going up.
So why is Stuff publishing such drivel???
I leave it to you to do milk, sugar, apples, lettuce, beef, pork, musli bars etc etc etc on your own - it is equally depressing …
Making jam? Leftover new, from jam making:
3pk 300ml (3), 4pk 160ml. $2 ea pk, neg.
Impress others with these powerful tips
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Do you want to hold a positive aura and captivate people around? Mastering the art of influence is crucial for anyone looking to make an impact, be it at work, or social events. Engaging people around you well turns simple … View moreImpress others with these powerful tips
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Do you want to hold a positive aura and captivate people around? Mastering the art of influence is crucial for anyone looking to make an impact, be it at work, or social events. Engaging people around you well turns simple chats into memorable moments. Using specific techniques can boost your presence and help you connect more deeply. Following are powerful moves to help you influence and win over anybody:
Power of your body language
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Real power isn't about where you stand—it's about how you carry yourself. Confident individuals attract attention without needing to seek it out actively. Your physical presence matters; positioning yourself where conversations naturally occur can enhance how others perceive you. Move with purpose; fidgeting can diminish your presence. For instance, at social gatherings or meetings, stand or sit where you can engage easily with others rather than hiding in corners. This deliberate positioning helps project confidence and invites interaction from those around you.
Pause before you speak
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Pausing before you speak makes you look more powerful. A strategic pause can significantly boost your authority. Quick replies may come off as hasty, while a moment of silence conveys confidence. For example, if someone questions your opinion on a proposed marketing strategy, take a couple of seconds to collect your thoughts before responding. This not only builds anticipation but also shows that you value the conversation. In a meeting, if someone interrupts you, maintain eye contact and wait a moment before replying calmly. This approach commands respect and demonstrates that you are in control of the dialogue.
Build bonds with thoughtful interaction
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People trust those who make them feel seen. Building genuine connections relies on active listening rather than forced interactions. Instead of name-dropping, acknowledge someone's insight by saying, "I appreciated your thoughts on the recent sales report." Simple affirmations like "That was an excellent idea" or summarising their points can foster trust and connection. For example, in a networking event, instead of introducing yourself with big names, focus on what the other person is saying and respond thoughtfully. This approach makes others feel valued and encourages deeper conversations.
Flip the power dynamic in conversations
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The greatest communicators get others to talk more while remaining in charge. Instead of taking over conversations, steer them by asking open-ended questions. Rather than posing "Why do you like this kind of music?" pose "What made you a fan of pop-music?" The small rephrasing inspires participation while permitting you to still have control over the conversation. For example, when discussing hobbies, rather than presenting your hobbies as statements, ask others and respond to their feedback. This demonstrates that you consider their opinion and maintains the natural flow of the conversation.
Remember small details about others
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Most of the people trust individuals who recall minor details. Mentioning previous conversations reveals social intelligence and makes others valued. For example, upon running into the same person later, say something you discussed in your previous conversation: "When we last met, you had mentioned your holidays in Spain coming up—how did it go?" Making notes mentally in discussions solidifies bonding and shows the other person you value what is being said. During informal meetups such as coffee breaks or lunch appointments, remembering small details can become a major help in making an impression on the other person.
Stay calm and composed under pressure
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Nothing unsettles people more than someone who stays calm under pressure. Composure naturally draws respect from others. Avoid reacting impulsively, instead, respond with intention. Lowering your voice during tense moments can help regain focus from others. If something unexpected occurs in a meeting, express gratitude for patience rather than apologising excessively. For example, if the video projector malfunctions during a presentation, calmly thank the audience for their understanding instead of dwelling on mistakes. This approach helps maintain a positive atmosphere and demonstrates your ability to handle pressure.
Genuinely appreciate and thank people
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Genuine appreciation builds stronger connections than fake politeness. Effectively expressing gratitude strengthens relationships. Instead of saying "Sorry for the delay," try "Thank you for your patience." Recognising contributions authentically reinforces respect without sounding insincere. For example, after a team project, acknowledge everyone’s efforts by saying something like, "I truly appreciate everyone's hard work on this complex project." This kind of recognition fosters goodwill and encourages collaboration in future projects.
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Between February 2025 and January 2026, we will be carrying out essential maintenance on the underside of SH1 Auckland Harbour Bridge which sits over the Pā at Stokes Point Reserve.
To keep the public safe there will be changes to the access of the Pā site.
Visit the … View moreBetween February 2025 and January 2026, we will be carrying out essential maintenance on the underside of SH1 Auckland Harbour Bridge which sits over the Pā at Stokes Point Reserve.
To keep the public safe there will be changes to the access of the Pā site.
Visit the NZTA website to find out how you might be affected.
Come and join us for one of the longest running community markets around, SUPPORT LOCAL PEOPLE, BUY NZ MADE, FIND A BARGAIN!
The Stock Clearout Sale is in full swing, with up to 60% OFF on premium beds and mattresses! ? Now’s the perfect time to upgrade your sleep – but hurry, stock won’t last!
? Weekend-Only Bonus:
✔ FREE Local Delivery – This Weekend Only!
✔ Kyro Queen Bed – Just $499!
? … View moreThe Stock Clearout Sale is in full swing, with up to 60% OFF on premium beds and mattresses! ? Now’s the perfect time to upgrade your sleep – but hurry, stock won’t last!
? Weekend-Only Bonus:
✔ FREE Local Delivery – This Weekend Only!
✔ Kyro Queen Bed – Just $499!
? Exclusive Purple Visa Offer
✔ 34 Months Interest-Free on purchases over $1,499
?️ Bonus Deal:
Buy any Sealy Posturepedic mattress with an adjustable base and get an extra $500 OFF!
Don’t miss out – these deals won’t last! ⏳
Are you considering retirement village living? Join us for an insightful event where you’ll gain expert advice on everything you need to know.
Gain insights on the property market from experienced real estate agents Kevin He and Gail Beaton from Barfoot & Thompson* and learn tips from … View moreAre you considering retirement village living? Join us for an insightful event where you’ll gain expert advice on everything you need to know.
Gain insights on the property market from experienced real estate agents Kevin He and Gail Beaton from Barfoot & Thompson* and learn tips from Katie Fitzpatrick from Moving On about downsizing and decluttering your home to prepare it for sale. Finally, here from one of our residents about their moving experience and tips on transitioning into village life.
Don’t miss the opportunity to plan with confidence for your future.
RSVP is essential.
Repurpose an old pallet into freestanding storage for your shed or garage and finish it in Resene Amulet for a fresh new look. Find out how to create your own with these easy step by step instructions.
Essential maintenance on SH1 Auckland Harbour Bridge will take place from 9pm this Saturday until 12pm on Sunday.
The southbound clip-on lanes and Shelly Beach off-ramp will be closed.
Please expect delays when travelling through the area. To stay informed sign up to email alerts.
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