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2901 days ago

Three essential tips to survive the Silly Season

Ann from Relationship Wellbeing Specialist

With the Christmas holidays, fast approaching, this is traditionally a time of year when relationships run into problem, marriages fracture, families encounter conflict and relationship stress.
Here are three of my top tips you can use to survive the Silly Season.
1. Communicate clearly about what needs to be done and how you're going to do it.
So important to plan with your partner and family members, to make sure you are all on the same page.

2. Be clear about your social commitments with your partner and family.
Some forward communication can make all the difference here by letting your partner know in advance what events are coming up and going though the diary together.

3. It's OK to say no
Don't fall into the trap of being a "people pleaser" and saying yes to every Christmas event.
In fact, it's a good practice to say "I'll get back to you about that", so you have time to think it through, make it fits into your schedule, and you can confirm with your partner or family.

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6 days ago

Poll: Do you think NZ should ban social media for youth?

The Team from Neighbourly.co.nz

The Australian Prime Minister has expressed plans to ban social media use for children.

This would make it illegal for under 16-year-olds to have accounts on platforms including TikTok, Instagram, Facebook and X.
Social media platforms would be tasked with ensuring children have no access (under-age children and their parents wouldn’t be penalised for breaching the age limit)
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Do you think NZ should follow suit? Vote in our poll and share your thoughts below.

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Do you think NZ should ban social media for youth?
  • 85.2% Yes
    85.2% Complete
  • 13.8% No
    13.8% Complete
  • 1% Other - I'll share below
    1% Complete
2403 votes
6 days ago

scumbags

Sandra from Waiwhetu

There are some really awful people around at the moment. This is what happened on Sunday.
We live in Hinemoa Street opposite the Waiwhetu Stream. At around 3.40 in the afternoon I was looking out my window and saw a car pull up and start to feed the geese and ducks out the window. Then The passenger an asian man jumped out and threw himself onto a goose. he picked it up and put it the boot of the car.
I immediately ran over and stood in front of his car to stop him moving I also called my husband to help. A lovely man was riding his bike and saw it and stopped to help me. The driver tried to drive into me but I didnt move. He tried telling us it was his pet. These are wild geese.

They had a cage in the boot and some wire all ready to catch the poor bird like they have done it before. My husband took the bird from the car and released it. I then moved out of the way and after lots of abuse from the driver they drove off threatening to come back and get more.
No one should be allowed to take these beautiful birds and certainly not like this. they are all starting to have wee babies at the moment the whole thing was so upsetting to me. Another neighbour further down the road also saw it all happen.
Please keep a look out for this car and if you see them by the stream go over and watch them lets all stop this happening.

10 hours ago

Seasonal Home Check-Up Reminder! 🔍

Texturite Coatings

Hi everyone!

As the seasons change, it’s time to think about your home’s exterior. Inspecting for cracks, peeling, or other signs of wear is crucial to maintaining your property. Small issues can lead to bigger problems if not addressed.

If you notice any concerns, don’t hesitate to reach out! At Texturite, we specialise in repairs and restorations to ensure your home stays protected from the elements.

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